By Leah McClellan
In any type of communication, in any conversation, there are needs on both sides.
They may seem quite simple, on the surface: I need this project finished by tomorrow. I need you to clean your room. I need you to stop at the store after work and pick up a few things for dinner. I need you to help me with this. I need you to go with me to my parents’ anniversary party.
Underlying practical needs, however, there are more complex needs that we might not be aware of: I need you to keep your promises. I need you to respect my need for order. I need you to understand my reality. I need to be heard. I need you to understand me. I need more closeness with you. I need to share life with you. I need to be accepted. I need to feel safe. I need... More...
