By Alex Blackwell

What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

If today happened to be your wedding day all over again or the day you made a life-long commitment to your partner, what would you say? With knowing what you know today, would you change your vows?

This isn’t about having regrets for what you should have said, it’s about taking advantage of the opportunity you have each and every day to reconnect and to restate your commitment and love. We don’t need a formal ceremony to do this; we can do this over our coffee and corn flakes, too.

Love in the beginning can be very idealistic and naive. It is full of hope and promise, but with very little information that would tell us how our partner needs... More...