By Dr. Corey Allan
When asked, most everyone will state that they want a great life – a great marriage – a great job.
This is natural.
It’s almost universal.
It’s an entirely different thing however to actually attain it.
The reason is simple.
Good is the enemy of great.
This also applies to marriage. A good marriage is the enemy of a great marriage.
This is why so many people wait to work on their relationship until something’s gone wrong. It’s why couples delay an average of six years after a problem occurs before they seek out professional help.
When things are good, it’s hard to find the motivation to make things great.
After all, you risk screwing up the good... More...