By Dr. Corey Allan

Over the past two weeks, we’ve had some great discussions about sexual desire differences and how this is part of every marriage.

Let’s wrap up this discussion by expanding the Four Points of Balance proposed by Dr. David Schnarch (and once again, these are trademarked by him and can be found in his work).

A solid flexible self is different than a reflected sense of self as it means you’re able to maintain your psychological shape while in close proximity to important people who pressure you to conform or accommodate them. You don’t have to keep your distance (emotionally or physically) in order to stay clear about who you are.
The more solid you are, the more important you can let your spouse be to you, and the more you can... More...