By Dr. Corey Allan

There’s a low desire spouse and a high desire spouse when it comes to sex – and there’s one of each in every marriage.

There’s also a low desire spouse and a high desire spouse on virtually every issue and decision in marriage. One of you wants to do something the other doesn’t, or wants to less than you. And even if you both want the same thing, one of you will want it more than the other.

Plus, no one is the low desire, or high desire on everything. Positions shift on different issues throughout the marriage.

The most common reaction to desire differences is to believe there’s something wrong … either with yourself, your spouse, the relationship, or all the above.

Keep this in mind, things going wrong and things not going... More...